Just Crush My Hopes and Dreams USN

so a few blog posts ago i made mention that my husband got orders to greece and how incredibly excited i was and blah blah blah...well the orders were supposedly "written" and we were just waiting for them to "post" so then we would have our hard copy, i could quit my shitty job that i LOATHE, we could pack, and all would be right with my perfect little world.
well it's a MONTH and a HALF later and still no posted hard copy orders for my to put in my hand, husband spoke with the detailer a week ago and he said "yep they are written and should post in FOUR business days" this was december 2nd. so i've been hounding him everyday "did you call the detailer?" "did you talk to the detailer" "did your orders post" god love him he doesen't hit me. this afternoon when i spoke with husband i asked again "did you talk to the detailier" and instead of his normal response of no [insert lame reason here] he said "no, and today when i called and got his voicemail it says he's NO longer a detailer" **hangs head** "OH SHIT!!"
so now we have NO idea what's going on with these orders. apparently they aren't available anymore so that's a plus. another down side: if he doesn't get the orders soon then he's making the first leg of this deployment to spain and leaving me here all alone to PACK EVERYTHING and transition EVERYTHING to IL where we will be for a few months before greece. i WILL light someone on fire if this happens.
if we don't get the orders then who knows what's going to happen, i know that i don't want to stay at this job any longer than i have to.
and i am done for now.
kristy